Cacai M. choose her journey and steps to live happy, lovely and lively! Despite of the trials and struggles which I think everyone has whether is shallow as you think, deep or in-between -- I think of that as it is all are spices of life. Simple and complicated are two different words with which are so different with each other. Yes, life is not that simple. It is complicated but you can live it simple as you go through struggles. It maybe hard to define if you have not been through how hard life is but one day you will know. To those who already know, you can relate. But one thing is for sure, bad happenings surely will pass! We just have to hold on, we just have to think that it is just trials and aught us to be strong as ever. We have to live life happily, lovely and lively whatever happens either if we are just in lowest level of individual or in a lowest state of emotion. Happiness is what counts. I choose to have it! Should you do not like to choose it? I challenge you! ;-) God is great, thanks a lot!